By Kathleen Hoppe, April 1997
I am the parent of a child who is deaf. Parents of deaf children today are faced with many decisions. From the moment of diagnosis, there are hearing aids to be chosen and purchased and maintained; schooling choices to determine; and communication modes to be decided upon. In the past, these had included an oral only approach, signing, lip-reading, or a combination of those methods. For us in 1997, it also includes the decision about whether to get a cochlear implant for our child. In this document, I will assume the reader is already knowledgeable about a cochlear implant, what it is, and what benefits it claims in terms of giving a deaf child "hearing".
I wish, within these pages, to give the reader an explanation of why our family has made the decision to not get a C.I. for our son.
Studying the cochlear implant: Surgery, maintenance and long-term effects
As with any surgery, there are risks associated with this cochlear implant surgery. General anesthetic exposure is a risk in all surgeries. Implant patients will incur the normal risks of surgery and general anesthesia. In addition, ear surgery may result in infection or bleeding, numbness or stiffness about the ear, injury to or stimulation of the facial nerve, taste disturbance, dizziness, increased tinnitus, neck pain and perilymph fluid leak. Inner ear fluid leak may result in meningitis. Implantation of the receiver/stimulator results in a palpable lump behind the ear. The presence of a foreign body under the skin may result in irritation, inflammation, or breakdown of the skin in the area around the receiver/stimulator and/or extrusion of the device. Such complications may require additional medical treatment, surgery, and/or removal of the device. Implantation of the device will result in complete loss of residual hearing in the implanted ear.
In 1993, the rate of major complications was down to about 5%. Those requiring revision surgery include flap problems, device migration or extrusion, and device failure. An uncommon and rarely permanent complication is facial palsy.
Lifestyle changes
A greater concern for us is the risk of damaging the device with electrostatic discharge. This can occur easily when a child goes down a plastic slide, or plays in a pit of plastic balls. "A discharge of static electricity can damage the electrical components of the cochlear implant system or corrupt the program in the speech processor. If static electricity is present (e.g., when putting on or removing clothes over the head or getting out of a vehicle), cochlear implant recipients should touch something conductive (e.g., metal door handle) before the cochlear implant system contacts any object or person. Prior to engaging in activities that create extreme electrostatic discharge, such as children playing on plastic slides, the speech processor and headset should be removed. Clinicians should use an anti-static shield on the computer monitor when programming a cochlear implant recipient." Carle Clinic warns that there is also risk to the implant from balloons (a VERY common toy!) and from VandeGraff machines, which are common in science classrooms and museums. Some may argue that the benefit of possible speech perception and use outweighs the disappointment in a child having to avoid these play situations. However, I find it ironic that in an attempt to make the child be more like the rest of the "hearing world" that the child must be identified as "different" on playgrounds and at birthday parties.
It is noted that the cochlear implant device can interfere with baby monitors: "Please be aware that because of radio frequency interference, the (Clarion) device interferes with the use of baby monitors. Please note that the opposite is not true. Baby monitors do not interfere with the transmission of information through your child's cochlear implant." This is another "small" inconvenience that makes one question what other devices may receive interference from the implant.
One device we know cochlear implants can interfere with is cellular (mobile) phones. "Some types of digital mobile telephones may interfere with the operation of the external equipment. As a result, cochlear implant recipients may perceive a distorted sound sensation when in close proximity (3-12 feet or 1-4 meters) to a digital mobile telephone in use." This could be a major inconvenience for users, and in our family vehicle would make hearing on the road difficult for our son, as we use a mobile phone. Even if we did not, many persons in cars we pass or stop next to will continue to use them.
Another issue is the necessity of carrying an identification card to prove that you are a cochlear implant user. "Devices such as airport metal detectors and commercial theft detection systems produce strong electromagnetic fields. Some cochlear implant recipients may experience a distorted sound sensation when passing through or near one of these devices. To avoid this, turn off the speech processor when in the vicinity of one of these devices. The materials used in the cochlear implant also may activate metal detection systems. For this reason, recipients should carry the Cochlear Implant Patient Identification Card with them at all times."
The device can also fail due to a strong blow. Just as you would not consistently hit your VCR, you would not want to give blows to your cochlear implant. This can be quite limiting in the typical little boy. Having raised five children prior to this one, I can tell you: kids hit their heads often! They fall down stairs, off bikes, on basketball courts. Boys especially love to wrestle and roll and sled and generally be physical. Again, we have a situation of trying to be made like others, but having to be different as a result. I do not hope that my son will want to play football, I'm not a contact sports fan. But I would hate to say, "no, you can't" because he may hurt his implant.
While the changes taking place in the technology of cochlear implants is impressive, at least one company exhorts medical personnel to warn parents that:
Of course, it is likely that our son would be successful by the definition of the cochlear implant team. He would be able to identify words in an open-set test (not multiple choice) about 50% of the time. Maybe even more, as some kids scored as high as 84%. These tests, however, were not conducted in parks, restaurants, school lunch rooms, or shopping malls where much of life is lived. Still, I recognize that while the "hearing" my son would get from the cochlear implant would not help him around mobile phones, magnetic devices, while swimming, on a plastic play park, in an airport, around stores with theft devices, or other areas where he might be scanned magnetically, he could have one on one conversations in areas that are not too noisy or dangerous to his device. There are people who would find that very desirable, but they seem to be the post-lingually deafened adults who formerly heard and spoke. One such person who is an exception spoke in our town on the auditory-verbal (formally known as "oral only") approach. She was born with a profound hearing loss.
During Ms. Ellen Rhoades presentation, she held herself up as a model of a hearing deaf person. Yet I noted that when I asked a question of her from my microphone some distance from the stage, she relied on the captioning being typed on stage. I am sure that face to face this obviously bright and determined woman does an excellent job with her speech perception. But in this classroom environment, she was much less impressive. The film we were shown of a darling little girl in the years after her cochlear implant was indeed inspiring. It seemed a miracle-this deaf child could now hear and speak. Missing from this clip, however, was footage of this little girl at the mall, in the classroom, and at church-all situations with lots of background noise. How did she do in those situations? Also missing were hard statistics on other children's stories. I have no doubt that we were shown the best success story, when we know that not everyone attains this level of success.
A strong emphasis was placed on the parent's responsibility to bring about success. "Deaf Kids Can Hear!" was the title of the talk given that night. However, this is not an accurate or honest presentation. According to a manufacturer of cochlear implant devices, "cochlear implants do not restore normal hearing and benefits vary from one individual to another." When, at the end of the presentation, I asked a question about technical failure rates, the answer was vague and pushed off until the next presentation. But as I spoke with others after the close, the impression was given that the failures in AV training were because the parents "didn't want the child to hear badly enough". I find this to be frightening. If after four years of intensive training, the child still is less than stellar in their open-set testing, the blame is placed on the family, or worse yet, on the child for not wanting it badly enough. I picture us devoting four years to our son's auditory verbal training, expecting him to hear and to speak. We do not sign, gesture, read lips, or use any tool but his hearing and speech for communication. At the end of the four years, he is unable to consistently understand what is said to him, or to make his needs known to us or others. And now we see ourselves as failures, and our son as one also. What message do we project at that point? Do we continue to affirm him as a hearing person, or do we now re-identify him as deaf? If he is unable to socially succeed with hearing children, will deaf children now accept him? Since we gave up signing for four years and relied only on aural input, how is his language development at this point in time? Four of his young, formative years that could have been enriched with American Sign Language, or even with pidgin signed English, have instead been spent attempting to "fix" him. Those years, in which his brain longed for communication that could have been easily met, are never to be recovered. Now we have failed in AVT method, and we have failed in giving our son a rich language base from which he learns more about the world. That is a weighty failure indeed.
My greatest regret is that our son's hearing loss was not identified until he was eighteen months old. For a year and a half, he lacked language input that signing would have provided. There is no question that being among a small minority who use this language poses disadvantages. But the major advantage for us as parents is that by learning this language, there is nothing we will not be able to discuss with our son. Our faith and morals, our family traditions and stories, our jokes and insults. All the things that make one part of a family. We will not spend years agonizing over whether he will be successful as a hearing person. We know that with sign language, he will be a happy person. I would be lying if I said there is not a certain sadness about the limited conversation he will have with some people. There are many members of our own extended family that will never learn to sign. But there will be an extended community of people who DO sign. Do I consider this limiting? Yes and no. Yes, it is obvious that there are a limited number of people who are fluent in sign language. There are also a limited number who share our religious faith. And just as I have no problem "limiting" my kids' exposure to families with similar religious beliefs, I have no problem with my deaf son being drawn to others who share his language. I believe that because he is getting language now, as a small child, that his brain will be ready to learn the written language of English, and any other language he desires to learn. He will be able to communicate with anyone who can read and write.
"Son, we love you. When you were a small child, we found out that you
were deaf. At first, we felt very sad. We thought of the things you weren't
hearing, our words of love for you, music, birds, crickets. But most of
all, we felt sad that for the first year and a half of your life, we hadn't
communicated to you as much as we could. We began signing to you that very
day, and were extremely happy when you started signing back. In the midst
of this excitement at finding a common language, some people began encouraging
us to get a cochlear implant for you. We even made an appointment with
a hospital that could do this. But as we studied the issue more, we saw
that there were risks and unknowns in this dependence on an as yet perfected
device. We realized that if we tried to "fix" you, you would always think
that we considered your deafness burdensome. We wish you had been able
to hear, but you don't. And we love you just as much! We want you to know
how special you are, and that God makes good of all things for those who
love Him. Because of you, and learning your language with you, we have
made many new friends we would never have known otherwise. We have learned
to think about your life and our own in a bigger picture, putting aside
instant gratification. We hope that when you are a man, you won't be angry
that we did not give you a cochlear implant that MAY have given you the
ability to understand speech in SOME situations. We hope that you will
be happy, with many friends, and with a great knowledge of our faith. Most
of all, we hope that you will know, we love you forever with no strings
(or devices!) attached."
Message to other parents: In rereading this document,
I realize that it would be upsetting to me if I was a supporter of cochlear
implants in children. While it is certainly my intent to encourage other
parents of deaf children who have not made a decision on this matter to
see a particular side to the debate, I do not wish to criticize parents
who chose cochlear implants. Your children, and my child, are valuable
people, all of whom deserve the best education available to them. I believe
that ultimately these big decisions about our kids belong to us, the parents.
I also believe that we should only make those decisions with our eyes wide
open.
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Last update: May 1, 2001